Saturday, March 28, 2009

How to forgive your partner

. Saturday, March 28, 2009

A lot of time we have experienced heart brakes, may be your partner is cheating on you.
It’s very difficult believing that the one that we love so much can hurt us. What happened to “love don’t hurt”. Sometimes you begin to wonder if the one your partner really loves you, if yes is the answer then why do we they hurt us when we less believe that they will. The reason is numerous and we cannot cover that in this topic.
To forgive your partner there are steps you need to take to truly experience forgiveness and make your partner truly see that you have forgiven them.

See your partner the way you see him before he offended you.

When your partner offends you, you are going to feel very bad for a while and of cause he will apologize, if he doesn’t let him know that he has offended you. When he apologizes for what he has done, now start seeing him like you use to see him before he wronged you. This means all that both of you use to do and how you use to play and chat. Start hating and playing like that again.

Begin to see reason to love him more

For you to completely forgive him start seeing the good part of him and always talk about his good part. Start creating good memories, always call him on phone, visit him and make every moment a memory that way both of you will forget what has happened and your love will grow again.

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Tuesday, March 10, 2009

How to survive a long distance relationship

. Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Long distance relationship no doubt is a very sensitive relationship that requires a lot of trust from both partners. It may be difficult because it denies you the opportunity to see each other whenever you desire and of cause also denies you intimacy. People go into distant relationships because of different reasons which include.

Type of Work:
The type of job that both partners do may involve traveling and something’s one of them has to relocate this causes distance relations.
One partner may be in a school far away from the partner in this case you can’t avoid distance at this time all you need is just to nurture the relationship by following the steps below.

1.Constant communication

Effective communication is one vital spice in a relationship and should be done effectively. Call your partner as frequent as every day and during some of your call talk for as long as 20 minutes so that your partner will fill you where ever she is.

2.Periodic Visits

For the relationship to grow both partners need to be visiting each other once in a while, and make sure that every visit counts

3.Covenant or oath

make an agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two of you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what you both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Do not feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her, you deserve the chance to speak from your heart and he or she deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.

4.Trust for each other

Finally there should be much trust in the relationship because trust is what guarantees confidence in the partner. You have to develop trust for your partner and guide it.
Long distance relationship is just like any other relationship it can survive just like any other relationship if you stay committed to your relationship.